Frequently Asked Questions

The biggest question which sets most of people – “WHY?”. We hope that information provided here will help you to find the answer to this and many other questions.

Why some people become transvestites?

It is one of the most difficult questions, the answer to which exists only theoretically. Some researchers believe that the reason is in the surrounding social environment, but today the majority inclines to the genetic reasons.

“Woman inside?”

Probably, the most probable cause of disguise is put in the theory “The woman inside”. The theory is rather simple. According to it, in identity of each man there are female components, and each woman has men. Our personality is a combination and male and female qualities. Disguise in clothes of other floor is considered as the means allowing “the internal woman” to come to light and to show womanly lines.

But why disguise?

If tranny men have “a woman inside” why not all men change clothes? Why only a small part estimated now by about one – three percent of male population, expresses this “femininity” disguise in the corresponding clothes? To ask transvestites – will answer that it relaxes them. Disguised transvestites usually try to express as much as possible the woman. They take a woman’s name, completely put on in a women’s clothing. As a rule, they try to become completely other person, that someone is not concerned by problems of their men’s copy. It is possible to tell that they try to develop the female identity.

But very few transvestites completely lead female life (en famme). They carry out the most part of life in the everyday male role. When the transvestite returns to male daily occurrence, the female identity unites with men to create from him more perfect person, more careful, sensitive and attentive to others.

Whether transvestites want to become women?

Unlike the transsexual, the transvestite treats the male body calmly and does not want to change it by means of operation. He agrees with his courage, but also recognizes that in his life there is a female component. The transvestite does not want to become a woman though very strongly admires female lines and really wishes to become similar to the woman, finding and developing in itself the most positive female lines, and integrating them into own life.

Transvestites are gays?

It is the most awful of all myths about transvestites. Most of transvestites actually heterosexual people. In all reviews you will find out that only about 5 percent from them gays. Most of people believes that transvestites are gays because the transvestite – gay is usually more immodest, than the heterosexual transvestite. Unfortunately, for most of people the first meeting with transvestites happens to the travesty in gay club. You can meet them and see the on live webcam on our website.

There are various types of transvestites?

In a general sense it is possible to call transvestites transsexuals, all men who put on a women’s clothing. But today the set of other terms is used to distinguish transvestites according to the reason of their disguise.

Female Impersonator – the person for whom disguise is a work. They turned disguise into art form. It is interesting to note that the late James Cagney began in show business as the travesty.

Fetish – the person who is sexually made horny by putting on of details of a women’s clothing. Unlike the ordinary transvestite, the fetishist will not change clothes completely. He will change clothes, only if it wants to be made horny sexually. The real fetishist cannot sometimes be made horny, will not put on the detail of a ladies’ room concerning him yet.

Femmiphile – the most common form of a transvestism. Femmiphile he has a person who very much likes a female role in society, very strong desire to associate himself with the woman. Femofila admire women and want to resemble them as much as possible.

Transgenderist – these people not necessarily are transsexuals, however aspire, much time to spend as a desirable floor. Other transgender people just mix female and men’s details of clothes and develop, thus, the individual style, without acting in society in cardinally opposite role.

Transsexual – transsexuals often confuse with transvestites, however transsexuals do not treat transvestites. Unlike transvestites who consider themselves men with a female part, the transsexual – the person who psychologically has one floor, and physiologically – another. Unlike the transvestite, the transsexual cannot be happy until changes a physiological body in the surgical way physically to correspond to the psychological floor and documents to lead full-fledged social life.

Whether there are transvestites among women?

Yes, but because the female fashion already adopted all elements of men’s wear, their number much less, than the number of the men who are changing clothes in women. Most of the women wishing to show the men’s advantages can make it by means of choice of profession of men’s type, for example the woodcutter or the lawyer. For them it is the easiest way to express the men’s party by means of force or aggression.

Whether it is possible to correct desire to change clothes?

Many years ago psychologists really tried to treat transvestites, however today most of them recognizes that disguise in clothes of other floor cannot be corrected is for the rest of life. Much the best results are yielded by training of trances in acceptance of the women’s party. Most of transvestites are capable to operate the passion for disguise, but no treatment exists. Desire to change clothes in clothes of other floor remains for the rest of life.

It is dangerous?

Disguise in itself is not harmful, the danger appears when the transvestite is not capable to accept the women’s party. As the society does not accept a transvestism at men, many transvestites have difficulties in attempt to reach consent in the soul. This inability to self-perception pushed many to drugs or alcohol, aggression and even suicide. They try to hide the women’s party, hypertrophying lines which society considers men’s.

Whether it is possible to define or in advance to tell whether the person will become a transvestite?

Natali. Representatives of different religious, social and ethnic groups become transvestites. Their professions are also various: from doctors and lawyers to drivers and unskilled workers. It is not always easy to define whether the person is a transvestite, even when it is changed clothes. Many achieved such success at disguise that becomes impossible to distinguish a trance from the ordinary woman.

In what qualities do transvestites differ?

Seeking to become more similar to women from their best party, transvestites are more careful and sensitive, they try to share others feelings and need it. They participate in many public projects and are more open for needs of other people.

Most of transvestites are married?

Bobby: one of researches it is shown that about seventy percent of trances are married, and most of them have children.

How do wives treat it?

As disguise in a women’s clothing is considered socially not acceptable, many transvestites hide it from the wives. Often it results in disharmony in marriage. Many transvestites are afraid that the wife will not understand them and will throw. In families where the wife knows the truth and decides to accept her and even to help the husband, marriage becomes even stronger. Wives consider such husbands more economic, become loving, sympathizing, and compassionate.

What concerning children?

While children of transvestites very seldom become transvestites, many wives recognize that they are afraid that children will become trances, and do not allow the husband to change clothes at children. Many transvestites also feel that children will apprehend it too hard therefore they just do not speak to them about it. In families where the father tells children the truth, especially if it happens at early age, a relationship of the father and the child become closer because the father sympathizes with the child and indulges him.

What problems do trances face?

As disguise in a women’s clothing is still socially inadmissible, transvestites feel immense loneliness and a depression. Usually it begins at early age – between 6 and 13 years. It seems to the young man who is badly informed concerning the desires, often that he such absolutely one. Often it causes strong internal chaos and pushes many even on suicide.

Many transvestites for the first time learn about similar through magazines “for adults”. As people place the majority of announcements in these magazines in search of sex, some transvestites experiment with homosexuality in attempt to meet such as they. Trances which joined such organizations as The Society for the Second Self from the USA find out that there is no need for a false sexual relationship to meet such as they. Offices have no relation to sex. They bear social functions, create support groups, help transvestites to meet, communicate, talk about the desires and the needs for disguise. In similar support groups it is possible to get acquainted even with the future wife.

Source of other problems facing trances is the hostility of society. Because of social prejudices, most of transvestites hides disguise in a women’s clothing for fear to lose work, the apartment, family and a social status.

Despite an old saying “The grass is always greener on the other side”, to transvestites it can be good everywhere. Instead of worrying concerning advantages of any given floor, the transvestite can combine with success the best from of both sexes and to be at the same time quite happy.